Male vs Female Boerboel: Which Should You Get?
Size, temperament, maturity, and the one factor that decides it for most families. An honest comparison from a working Texas kennel that raises both.
Updated July 2026
The Short Answer
Both sexes are equally protective family guardians, so you are not trading away protection either way. Males run bigger (150-200 lbs) and can be more territorial and pushier through their long maturity. Females (120-170 lbs) are typically more agile and often mature faster mentally. For most homes the deciding factor is any dog you already own: pick the opposite sex, because same-sex pairs of intact Boerboels usually fail, even after years of getting along.
Male vs Female Boerboel at a Glance
| Male Boerboel | Female Boerboel | |
|---|---|---|
| Weight | 150-200 lbs (typical healthy adult) | 120-170 lbs (typical healthy adult) |
| Height | 24-28 inches at the shoulder | 22-25 inches at the shoulder |
| Build | Heavier bone, blockier head, more mass overall | More athletic and agile; still a giant, powerful dog |
| Maturity pace | Slow. Pushy, testing adolescence; most settle between 2 and 4 years | Often matures faster mentally; typically steadier through adolescence |
| Guarding style | Equally protective; more patrolling, posturing, and territorial display | Equally protective; often quicker to alert and more selective about threats |
| With a same-sex dog at home | Poor bet. Two intact males usually fail as housemates | Poor bet. Two intact females usually fail too, sometimes after years of peace |
| First-time-Boerboel-owner fit | Workable with commitment; more dog to physically manage through maturity | Often the easier entry: smaller, more agile, usually steadier sooner |
Ranges describe typical healthy adults, not guarantees. Individual dogs vary widely within each sex, and how you raise the dog shapes the adult more than its sex does.
How Much Bigger Are Male Boerboels?
Typical healthy adult males weigh 150-200 lbs and stand 24-28 inches at the shoulder. Typical females run 120-170 lbs at 22-25 inches. Between littermates of opposite sexes, that usually works out to a 30-50 lb difference at maturity, and males also carry noticeably heavier bone and blockier heads.
The practical takeaway is not that females are small; a 130 lb female is still a giant dog that outweighs most family members. It is that a big male at the top of the range is simply more animal to manage on a leash, at the vet, and in the truck. If anyone in the household will struggle to physically control a dog that leans 180 lbs into the lead when a deer crosses the fence line, the female's size range is the more honest choice. You can see the difference for yourself on our males and females pages.
Do Male and Female Boerboels Differ in Temperament?
On average, yes, but less than most buyers expect. Males tend to be more territorial, more physical in how they engage, and pushier through their long adolescence. Females often mature faster mentally, focus earlier in training, and are more selective about what deserves a reaction. Both sexes are equally devoted to their families and equally serious guardians when it counts.
Here is the honest part: the variation between individual dogs within each sex is larger than the average difference between the sexes. We have raised soft, easygoing males and hard, pushy females. Large-scale behavior research points the same direction: a 2022 study by Morrill and colleagues in the journal Science, covering surveys on more than 18,000 dogs, found that breed explains only a small fraction of the behavioral differences between individual dogs, and that sex is a similarly weak predictor of an individual dog's personality. Averages are real, but they tell you little about the specific puppy in front of you.
That is why we tell buyers to hold their sex preference loosely and weight the individual puppy's evaluated temperament heavily. For the breed's baseline disposition, sourced against the parent club's own guidance, read our Boerboel temperament guide.
Can Two Boerboels Live Together?
An opposite-sex pair usually works fine, and it is the combination we recommend to families who want two Boerboels or who already own another large dog. A same-sex pair of intact Boerboels usually fails, and this is the single most important thing on this page if you already have a dog at home: pick the opposite sex of the dog you own.
We say "usually fails" from experience, not theory. We watched two of our own sisters who genuinely loved each other turn on one another after three great years together, and we have heard the same story from other Boerboel homes more times than we can count. Same-sex pairs that grow up together have better odds, but even then things can go bad at the drop of a hat, and a fight between two dogs this size is not something you break up with a stern voice. Exceptions exist; betting your household on being the exception is a mistake.
Boerboels paired with smaller dogs of either sex have a higher success rate, and spaying or neutering lowers the risk in same-sex pairs without eliminating it. Our Boerboel FAQ covers multi-dog compatibility in more detail.
Should I Spay or Neuter, and When?
For a giant breed like the Boerboel, current veterinary guidance favors waiting until the growth plates close, roughly 18-24 months, before spaying or neutering. Altering a giant-breed puppy early removes the hormones that regulate skeletal growth, and research on large breeds has linked early spay and neuter to higher rates of joint disorders. Make the final call with your own veterinarian.
The best-known research here is the UC Davis work by Hart and colleagues, which examined joint disorders and certain cancers by neuter age across 35 breeds and found that many large breeds altered before a year of age had significantly higher rates of problems like cranial cruciate ligament tears and hip dysplasia. The Boerboel was not one of the breeds studied, so we do not pretend there is Boerboel-specific data; the giant-breed pattern is simply the sensible guide until there is.
Waiting does carry management duties: an intact female cycles roughly twice a year and needs secure separation from intact males during heats, and an intact adolescent male needs an owner who stays ahead of his testing phase. Those are solvable problems for a prepared home. For the full picture on joint health, testing, and what we guarantee, read our Boerboel health and lifespan guide.
Which Is Right for a First-Time Boerboel Owner?
For a first Boerboel, we usually steer buyers toward a female or toward a calmer-temperament puppy of either sex. Females give you a somewhat smaller, more agile dog that typically steadies sooner, which makes the first trip through Boerboel adolescence more forgiving. But a level-headed male is a better first Boerboel than a sharp, pushy female, which is exactly why we do not sell puppies by sex alone.
What matters more than the box you check on the application is the match between the individual puppy and your household: your experience with large dogs, kids and their ages, other animals, fencing, and how much structure you can realistically provide in the first two years. We breed for stable temperament first, and we will tell you plainly if we think a particular puppy, or the breed itself, is the wrong fit. If you are starting from zero, our guide to Boerboels as family dogs is the place to begin.
How We Place Puppies
We spend the litter's first 8 weeks evaluating every puppy's temperament and structure: how each one recovers from new sounds and surfaces, how it engages with people, where it falls in the litter's pecking order, and how it is put together physically. By go-home time we know which puppies are the confident, forward ones and which are the softer, more handler-focused ones, and that evaluation matters more to your success than whether the puppy is male or female.
During the pick process we share what we have seen and help match each family to the puppy that fits their home, not just the sex or color they came in wanting. Tell us what your household looks like and what job the dog will have, and we will tell you which puppies in the litter we would take home in your shoes. See who is here now on our Available Puppies page, or start a puppy application and we will go from there.
Male vs Female Boerboel FAQ
Are male Boerboels more protective than females?
No. Both sexes carry the full guardian instinct, and a female Boerboel will defend her family just as seriously as a male. The difference is style, not commitment: males tend to patrol and posture more, making territorial displays at the fence line, while females are often quicker to alert and more discriminating about what actually warrants a response. If protection is your goal, either sex does the job.
Are female Boerboels easier to train?
Often, but not always. Females tend to mature mentally faster, so many are more focused and less distractible through the 8-to-24-month adolescent stretch, when males can be pushy and testing. By adulthood the gap mostly closes. Individual temperament matters far more than sex: a soft, handler-focused male will out-train a hard-headed female every time. Both sexes need the same consistent, structured training from day one.
Do male Boerboels calm down with age?
Yes, most do. Male Boerboels mature slowly; the pushiest, most testing behavior usually shows up between about 8 months and 2 years, and most males settle noticeably between 2 and 4 years as they finish maturing physically and mentally. Structure, training, and enough exercise through adolescence determine how smooth that ride is. A male that was allowed to run the house at 10 months does not magically calm into a good citizen at 3.
How much bigger are male Boerboels than females?
Typical healthy adult males run 150-200 lbs and stand 24-28 inches at the shoulder; females run 120-170 lbs at 22-25 inches. In practice that is often a 30-50 lb difference between littermates of opposite sexes, and males also carry blockier heads and heavier bone. Both are giant, powerful dogs; a 130 lb female is not a small dog by any standard.
Can a male and female Boerboel live together?
Usually yes. An opposite-sex pair is the most reliable two-Boerboel combination and the one we recommend to families who want two. If both dogs are intact you must manage heat cycles with total separation or you will have an unplanned litter, so most companion homes spay or neuter at least one of the pair once growth is finished. Same-sex pairs are a different story: two intact Boerboels of the same sex usually fail as housemates, even after years of getting along.
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